This. This. This. In so many ways, this. Altho I almost always add the poly aspect as well. I love that there's an essay in the NYT about a woman (married monogamously to a man) who says _this_.
I wish I'd thought to bring it up randomly. That's brilliant.
ETA: Turns out I am Not OK with criticism of this article that involves the b word. I've turned comments off entirely, so I don't find out if there's anything else involving criticism of this article that I am also not OK with.