The second character meal was the princess thing at Ariel's Grotto. We were the last table on the rotation, and I think at least one princess skipped us entirely, which disappointed the girls. Most of the princesses who stopped by the table made an effort to include Teddy, possibly because some of them thought he was a girl. Service is a lot slower (not a buffet but a limited menu with fixed pricing), but they were very careful with my order and the food was fine.
I gotta say, if you can get going in the morning, character breakfasts before other people are up and about are THE efficient, effective way to hang out with characters. You can't do rides yet, and they have to be there and they have no one else to attend to.