Today, R. went to the IEP meeting (3 year re-eval). The new-ish OT identified some issues that had previously not been noticed so there are some modifications and additional motivation for R. and I to maybe get T. doing martial arts. I'm thinking tai chi, to minimize the risk of anyone getting hurt; there's a fairly traditional school in town that looks good. That's what finally helped me with my proprioreceptive problems; maybe if T. gets that kind of help a few decades earlier, it'll be even more effective.
Meanwhile, I dragged my still under the weather self off to pick up T. at school, then to Starbucks (I had a plain, toasted bagel, which was nice) and then to gymnastics. We had a couple sitters, so I told R. he could work late to make up for some of the interruption and I went to bed early.