I got to dance with R.! And with K. Lots of fun!
Grandma (R.'s mother) watched Teddy at home. He was calm enough to go to sleep and she says he did not cry at all, which I am skeptical of, because he always cries at least a little with me, and with everyone else, but maybe it did not meet her threshold for crying. In any event, K. and I stayed until about 11 and then came home. R. stayed to the bitter end (shortly after midnight) because he was in the wedding party. Teddy was sound asleep and only woke up to nurse a few times until about 5:30 a.m. (and we had to change him) but between 5:30 and 8, he was very restless and apparently not happy with me. He scooted to the opposite side of the bed and stared at me and whimpered. He got his sippy cup (which he'd gone to sleep with, it had water in it, which is why he was wet when I got home, and why his disposable was freaking soaked in the morning) and plastic hammer and snuggled up to them (his idea of comfort objects is absolutely mystifying -- and he has not settled on a favorite; it's different every time he wants one). But they did not make him happy and I eventually pulled him back to me and nursed him until he was able to settle down and sleep, which he did from 8-9:30. Which was a relief. He wasn't awake that whole time but he wouldn't stay asleep for more than a half hour or so at a shot, then he'd be awake, whimpering, and looking at me funny again.
I'm not looking forward to the June wedding. That's gonna be hard. It might take a couple days to recover from that one. R. did take him to Nashua today to return the tux and go to Costco. Which was a relief for me, because Teddy continued to be more clingy than usual today.